Shopping. Girls are supposed to love shopping, yes? I enjoy shopping for clothes for my kids. Or my husband. I’m pretty good at picking out things for other people most of the time (though, my teen daughter would argue otherwise). I love shopping for office supplies. Or decor. Or for storage solutions.
But, I. hate. shopping. for. clothes. for. myself.
Since having kids #3 and 4, I just haven’t enjoyed shopping for clothes for my body. I’ve avoided it at all costs and done only the bare minimum in order to appear like a “responsible citizen” when I have to go to places where there will be other people. I guess that’s my excuse for looking like a slob most of the time. I used to work outside the home and dress nicely. After being home for almost 16 years, I guess I’ve defaulted to choosing comfort over fashion most of the time. Granted, I have NEVER YET gone to a store in my pajama pants. I mean, come on, I do have SOME decency and self-respect left. Lol I like the clothes I wear most days because I feel comfortable in them. And with everything we have to deal with each day, isn’t comfort important? (I’m afraid I’m gonna be living in lounge pants by the time I’m an old lady *insert eye roll*).
Sure, comfort is important, but so are other things, you say. And since I’ve committed to stepping up my fashion game, here goes expanding my comfort-zone in SO. MANY. WAYS.
Item 1
Tahari Voilet Faux Leather Ballet Flat in Blush
These are cute and I usually love flats (as you can see in the other pics, I’m wearing my own black flats). But, these were a hair tight. Do they stretch over time? I also don’t like that you can see my toe butt cracks. Yes, toe crack is a thing. When it comes to shoes I usually avoid buying shoes that either A) make my feet look longer than they already are (this is why I don’t yet own a pair of Chuck Taylor’s) and B) show toe crack because who’s got time for that? I mean, how rude. Is that toe crack hangin’ outtta your shoe, like some kind of fashion plumber butt? Ew. It doesn’t bother me on other people. Just on me. No toe crack from me out there polluting the vision of others. Nope.
Decision: Nope.
Item 2
Kut from the Kloth Straight Leg jeans in Navy
These fit well. I like them and could see wearing them with things I already own. Although, I feel like I have a pile of jean on my ankles. Is it supposed to pile up like that? Asking for a friend. No, I’m asking for myself! Help! Lol
—-These are the jeans in every picture—
Decision: Not sure. Whatd’ya think?
Item 3
Daniel Rainn Bilson Pleat Detail Blouse in Burgundy
I kinda like this shirt! I love 3/4 sleeves because they make my arms look better…skinnier, shorter…I don’t know, just better. They also help with getting too hot. Which I tend to do if I’m doing ANYTHING. (I was a hot mess by the time I finished trying everything on!) The cami that’s attached is no good for me, as they usually aren’t. I like a little more coverage underneath shirts that are very see-thru. Believe me, I know full well that ain’t nobody wanna see that much Amy. 🙂
This is me [duh] showing off how the little cami is all in the back so I could get an idea what it looked like without it. And, the 3rd pic is how I really feel about this whole process. Lol
Decision: Leaning toward yes.
Item 4
Honey Punch Rivington Textured Open Cardigan in Blush
I bet this would look really cute with those shoes that didn’t quite fit. What could I wear under this? I chose a basic black sleeveless top I already owned. But maybe that Daniel Rainn shirt would look good? It’s supposed to get to mid 80’s here today, so this was very hot. VERY hot. Granted, when it’s 20 degrees out this winter, I may better appreciate this sweater. But I’m thinking this color washes me out a bit. What say you?
Decision: Leaning towards no. Unless I shouldn’t? I guess a bit wishy washy on this one…which means I probably shouldn’t buy it. :/
Item 5
Le Lis Alapay 3/4 Sleeve Printed Back Knit Top
Girl loves me a knit top!!! Hallelujah! I love this top. EXCEPT….the neck is so wide. Why, why, why? (this is why I hate shopping) If the neck were smaller like the Daniel Rainn shirt, I’d be buying this in a heartbeat. Really open necks bother me for many reasons I can’t explain; I just don’t feel comfortable in them. Never have, never will.
Decision: No. :,(
Ok, that’s it for this Fix! Leave your comments below – believe me, I need all the fashion advice I can get so don’t hold back. Also, can we get a hallelujah for all the fashion bloggers out there? Oh my, am I thankful God in heaven did not see fit to make me gifted in that area. Shopping in front of people, taking selfies (also very high up on my list of things I hate doing), and then writing about it all….yep, I need to go get some chocolate or take a nap now. Or both. Maybe this will be easier next time? At least I find joy in maybe bringing a laugh or two to your day at my expense. Laugh away, friend. Laugh away. I can’t hear you anyway. Lol
This is me getting the last laugh because I can wear this to work if I want to! Ok, that was supposed to be funny…but maybe it’s a bit mean girl instead? I meant it in love, friends! In love…because I was in my regular work day clothes! 🙂 But seriously, do you ever think “if Mel Robbins can do it…and every male entrepreneur in the WORLD can wear t-shirts, why, oh why can’t I???”
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